20 Tips for the Newly Awakened


To those who are just now coming on-line to the light and the love that is:

I realize that many individuals are starting to see, think and feel different from before. I have a few tips and tricks to help guide you through the process.

1 – When you see numbers such as 1:11, 11:11, or even 3:33 a lot – it is low key a message from your higher self, angels and ancestors. You don’t need to know what it means, although you can look deeper into it, but just know that you are being loved and guided every step of your journey.

2 – Watch a few movies like “Star Wars” and “The Matrix” to get just a feel of what is going on here.

3 – Realize that you don’t live in the world that you thought you did and that unlearning your whole education and starting over might be helpful. 😁

4 – If you feel yourself awakening – you more than likely will go through the “dark night of the soul,” which can be horrifying and real life scary but ultimately you will come through it stronger and more resilient than ever. (Dark night of the soul is basically you fighting your own demons and clearing you and your ancestors akashic records, which is awesome, by the way!, it lasts different amounts of time for different people)

5 – Realize that you are not alone… like, literally, ever. But it’s not scary or weird. The other dimensions that are constantly around you that consist of all kinds of energies can’t see you naked or anything, they just see your energy outline in a color of light that is your “aura.”

6 – Get used to “downloads” of information. Usually while you sleep or are in the shower. If you meditate, prepare for some serious connections and answers.

7 – Don’t try to figure it all out because it’ll drive you mad. You’re going to get pieces of so many puzzles and most of them don’t even go together but it doesn’t matter. Just hold on to them and stay strong, light and positive. They will all come together when they should. (Throw linear time out the proverbial window 😉)

8 – The main objective is love. Self love first, love for earth and other beings and creatures second. Third, love for everything else. Literally all love, all the time.

9 – Learn how to clean your energy and your space. So many different methods but a few are: burning sage, opening windows and doors and with rocks and crystals. I’m to the point where I can walk in any room and close my eyes and think of an energy “sonic boom!” And the whole place is cleared for me for a decent amount of time.

10 – Look for like minded groups about awakening, enlightenment, kundalini, ascension, star seeds, light workers, pleadians, lemurians, etc., and people having to do with all of that, on social media and follow them. You’ll learn a lot really fast. But remember, everyone’s awakening journey is different, so just take it for what it is worth. Apply what you like and discard what you don’t need.

11 – We create our own reality, so the more positivity, love, light, rainbows and butterflies you can throw at us, the better.

12 – Turn off the fake news and anything that brings your vibration down or makes you feel heavy. Also eat foods with that same thing in mind. Keep it light and light. Everything is energy and what you eat or pay attention to… you are.

13 – Realize muggles, who are not enlightened, nor do they want to be, are everywhere. You can spot them by their obsession with matrix issues such as politics, government and judgement. Love them, too, but don’t try to change their mind or convince them that matrix things don’t matter. They will find all of that out when they are ready. Just love them.

14 – Learn what true self care is and apply it to your life in every way possible. Stay hydrated, eat well and sleep as much as your body requires that is possible for your life.

15 – Understand that the universe and your higher self are in charge now and they may force things on you or away from you that you don’t understand at the time, but learn to trust the process. They know the ending and they know the road it takes to get there. Even if it’s rocky, it’s the best route for you on your journey and the best lessons will be learned and the best life will be experienced. So if they push a loved one away, or if somehow your job isn’t suiting you anymore and you all of the sudden have the desire to make changes in your life, don’t be afraid of change and don’t be afraid to fail. Because there is no fail. Only less regrets and more lessons learned.

16 – Yes, the universe wants you to clean up the planet. It’s true. Your sudden interest in getting rid of single use plastics and being concerned about waste management has a deeper purpose than you can even comprehend. So please, please, please do your part to reuse, recycle and waste not, want not. Gaia needs you desperately.

17 – Understand that what you whole heartedly believe today may not make sense tomorrow. It’s a continuous roller coaster of a learning experience. Understand that knowledge is infinite and just keeping an open mind and an open heart will go a long way.

18 – There is no longer “right” and “wrong”. That’s an ego thing that doesn’t matter. It is or it isn’t for each individual. And that may change tomorrow…

19 – Some people will feel the change. Some will see it. Some will know it. Any combination of those or all of the above, works. Just know that love, light and compassion will soon reign where darkness, greed and power have stood for too long.

20 – To summarize: Learn to manifest your best reality, love yourself, the earth and others and hold the light. And that’s how we create the future of prosperity and compassion for future generations.

Please learn to discern any information you come across because that will be your biggest ally. Also, feel free to ask me, or someone you trust who is going through this, about literally ANYTHING. Nothing is too weird or cooky for me.

There are books and websites and podcasts and feeds on all of this. Too much information, really. Don’t get lost in it all… or do.

I finally found answers with Victor Oddo, who helps guide you through the ascension process, and Lee Carroll, who channels “Kryon”. I would highly suggest either of them as resources for information.

Love, light and balance to you all. I truly love all of you and I’m so grateful to be here, right now.

Photo credit and information on how to read the Akashic records:

How to Read the Akashic Records and Heal Your Soul?

Outcast, and yet In…cast?

I am more grateful than words can express and overwhelmed with absolute and pure joy to be at the place in my life, at this time on earth with the knowledge and gifts that I have been given. I wouldn’t give up any of my life experiences (not even prison) for anything. That being said…

I am such a weirdo. I mean that in the most loving way possible, but it is so true. I could not be normal if my life depended on it. My brain works completely different than it used to. I proved that by going to brain mapping and most of the parts of my brain, the right and left sides, that handle “normal” everyday activity are basically on autopilot. But my subconscious, top of my head part was lit up like a Christmas tree. I honestly can’t focus properly on everyday tasks and it is a serious accomplishment and chore to finish a task. I can’t tell you how proud I am of myself when I fix a meal or actually load AND unload the dishwasher. My eyes have changed what and how they see as well. Like I have this weird ultra vision that lets me see many things inside of things. I find myself watching the patterns the robot vacuum is making as it’s doing its rounds instead of finishing folding the laundry like I am supposed to be doing.

I’ll sit down to write a blog post and 17 hours later I have finally opened up the right window on my comp to be able to start typing. It’s like ADD on some major steroids. I no longer take medications or drugs and I don’t drink. I am like a poster child of sobriety and yet a lot of the time I feel like I’m looking through the eyes of someone on hallucinogens. And it’s mostly awesome, don’t get me wrong, but it’s also extremely isolating sometimes from the normal world.

Lee, my ex-husband who I now date again as well as live with and work for, is the poster child of down to earth. He is seriously probably one of the best men I have ever met. But while I’m off staring at clouds and talking about aliens and angels, he’s attempting to “just watch the football game”. I get it. He’s been this way since I met him 21 years ago and I know he will always be the same and I love him for that – but my new situation just puts distance between me and him… and everyone, really.

Absolutely nothing in my brain is normal anymore. I feel like an elevated human being with so much more compassion, knowledge and understanding of things and I do feel like I’m transcending into the next dimension and to a higher plane of this earth planet… but do I have to feel so alone doing it? And why did I change and he didn’t? And immediately I already answered the ‘feel alone’ question… because I am literally never alone.

Besides my 2 yorkshire terrier dogs, Tobias and Loki, who are my best friends and listen and watch me all day long in wonderment of “What in the hell is this woman talking about and doing?” I am still in my “hermit phase” of awakening and only speak to my kids, parents and sisters, for the most part. I have one or 2 ladies that I know that are nice enough to check in with me from time to time who know I am crazy and that’s ok, but no one really around me anymore. And that is ok because I am at all times surrounded by angels and ancestors in my head and who I can not only feel but also hear and sometimes see – which is great – but it still isn’t a replacement for real people, I’m sure. I rarely answer my phone because I don’t like the ridiculous things that come out of my mouth when I do and I always hang up asking myself “WTF did you just say?”

I have to have my groceries delivered OR avoid eye contact with anyone in the store if I do go, because I’ll end up saying something weird to the cashier like, “Your father who passed away misses and loves you, too. And he’s standing right behind you…” and some people are up for that kind of conversation while others look around nervously and consider calling for help.

So if you see me out in public or at a family gathering or anywhere really… just know that I am trying really hard to act normal and that I don’t mean to be such a weirdo… but that I am still so very grateful that I am. My head is legitimately always in the clouds. And for hecks sake – if you feel like or want to talk to me about some amazing, weird, out of this world stuff – then by all means, please do. I am sooo down!!


**I want to say thank you right now to a few people that I’ve never actually met (yet), who are definitely part of my spirit family, who have helped me more than they will ever know as I struggled to find answers to my awakened situation.

Victor Oddo, who has such an amazing youtube channel that helps people who are in the awakening process, who basically saved my life.

Kryon, of magnetic service, who also played his part in saving me, has an amazingly beautiful and informative youtube channel. I am travelling to see him in Monument Valley this February and I cannot wait for the experience.

Seriously, if you find yourself having any of the ascension or awakening symptoms, like I speak of, or you’re just plain curious, do yourself a huge favor and check these guys out. And hopefully they don’t mind the plug 🙂

Victor Oddo: